Turn Your Brain Into A Powerful Thinking Machine !!!!!!!

There are two basic principles to keep your brain healthy and sharp as you age: variety and curiosity. When anything you do becomes second nature, you need to make a change. If you can do the crossword puzzle in your sleep, it’s time for you to move on to a new challenge in order to get the best workout for your brain. Curiosity about the world around you, how it works and how you can understand it will keep your brain working fast and efficiently. Use the ideas below to help attain your quest for mental fitness.

1. Read a Book
Pick a book on an entirely new subject. Read a novel set in Egypt. Learn about economics. There are many excellent popular non-fiction books that do a great job entertaining you while teaching about a subject. Become an expert in something new each week. Branch out from familiar reading topics. If you usually read history books, try a contemporary novel. Read foreign authors, the classics and random books. Not only will your brain get a workout by imagining different time periods, cultures and peoples, you will also have interesting stories to tell about your reading, what it makes you think of and the connections you draw between modem life and the words.
2. Play Games
Games are a wonderful way to tease and challenge your brain. Suduko, crosswords and electronic games can all improve your brain’s speed and memory. These games rely on logic, word skills, math and more. These games are also fun. You’ll get benefit more by doing these games a little bit every day-spend 15 minutes or so, not hours.
3. Use Your Opposite Hand
Spend the day doing things with your non-dominant hand. If you are left-handed, open doors with your right hand. If you are right-handed, try using your keys with your left. This simple task will cause your brain to lay down some new pathways and rethink daily tasks. Wear your watch on the opposite hand to remind you to switch.
4. Learn Phone Numbers
Our modem phones remember every number that calls them. No one memorizes phone numbers anymore, but it is a great memory Skill. Learn a new phone number everyday.
5. Eat for Your Brain
Your brain needs you to eat healthy fats. Focus on fish oils from wild salmon, nuts such as walnuts, seeds such as flax seed and olive oil. Eat more of these foods and less saturated fats. Eliminate transfats completely from your diet.
6. Break the Routine
We love our routines. We have hobbies and pastimes that we could do for hours on end. But the more something is second nature, the less our brains have to work to do it. To really help your brain stay young, challenge it. Change routes to the grocery store, use your opposite hand to open doors and eat dessert first. All this will force your brain to wake up from habits and pay attention again.
7. Go a Different way
Drive or walk a different way to wherever you go. This little change in routine helps the brain practice special memory and directions. Try different side streets go through stores in a different order anything to change your route.
8. Learn a New Skill
Learning a new skill works multiple areas of the brain. Your memory comes into play, you learn new movements and you associate things differently. Reading Shakespeare, learning to cook and building an airplane out of tooth picks all will challenge your brain and give you something to think about.
9. Make Lists
Lists are wonderful. Making lists helps us to associate items with one another. Make a list of all the places you have traveled. Make a list of the tastiest foods you have eaten. Make a list of the best presents you have been given. Make one list every day to jog your memory and make new connections. But don’t become too reliant on them. Make your grocery list, but then try to shop without it. Use the list once you have put every item you can think of in your cart. Do the same with your “to do” lists.
10. Choose a new skill
Find something that captivates you that you can do easily in your home and doesn’t cost too much. Photography with a digital camera, learning to draw, learning a musical instrument learning new cooking styles, or writing are all great choices.

10 Things

How we deal with the changes in life impacts how well we deal with
life itself. Do we
see change as an opportunity for growth, or do we desperately
try to hang on to the status quo? Here are some tips to help you weather changes
and smooth out the bumps in your life.

1. Expand your horizons.

Use the change to learn something. Now is the time to become
computer literate, learn to take great pictures with the camera that's on the
closet shelf, or brush up on your writing skills in a creative writing class.
You'll learn something new and meet people who share a common interest with you.

2. Live a healthy lifestyle.

Pay attention to the food you eat to fuel your body. Choose
protein-rich foods, whole grains, and plenty of fruits and vegetables. As food
fuels your body, sleep fuels your brain. Get 7 or 8 hours a night if possible.
Exercise daily. It goes a long way to making you feel better.

3. Use your support network.

When you're feeling sad, confused, or overwhelmed, don't hesitate
to contact a friend, family member, clergy member or therapist. Choose someone
who will listen to you in a safe, non-judgmental way. Talking is a great way to
lighten your load as you work through your change.

4. Volunteer.

Give your time to help others and notice how rewarding it feels.
When your life seems to be in total upheaval, helping someone else puts things
in perspective. No matter how dismal things may seem, there are always plenty of
people who would gladly trade places with you. Remember that.

5. List the stable things in your life.

When change is swirling all around you and you feel totally off
balance, make a list of the things in your life that remain stable. What is your
daily routine? Do you wake up at the same time each morning and have coffee and
read the newspaper before work? Are there favorite television shows you watch?
Do you attend religious services each week? Listing the routine things you do
will remind you that there is some stability in your life.

6. Take your time.

Life can change in an instant, but it takes time to adjust to the
change. If you lose your job, don't expect an immediate adjustment to your
unemployed status. If you are widowed or divorced, it will take time to settle
into a new routine as a single person. Understand this and allow yourself to
ease into your new life situation.

7. Explore the opportunities in transition.

A door opens because another door has closed. This may be the time
to investigate something major like moving from a house to a condo or maybe to
another location. Perhaps you want to change your image with a makeover. What
about getting involved in local politics or opening a home business? All things
are possible.

8. Keep a journal.

Keeping a journal is very therapeutic. Write about how the changes
in your life are affecting you. What are your feelings? The journal is for your
eyes only, so write from your heart. No censoring your entries. That defeats the
purpose of journaling.

9. Take time for yourself.

Are you busy caring for others and neglecting yourself? When your
life is in transition, it is important to make time for yourself. To function
effectively, you must come from a place of wholeness. We all have the same 24
hours every day. Make yourself a priority, even if you have to set something
else aside. If necessary, schedule a daily appointment with yourself and keep
it.

10. Grieve for what you are losing.

Any change involves the loss of something. Give yourself
permission to grieve for what you are losing no matter how trivial others may
think it is. This is something you must get through in a way that is meaningful
to you so that you can move forward without regret.

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LEARN TO COPE WITH CRITICISM

When you can distinguish between constructive comments and negative remarks, you can use them to your advantage. Criticism from someone who has taken time to assess your work can be valuable, whereas an ill-tempered tirade is best ignored. Develop a filter to reject any irrational criticism.

ADMIT YOU'RE OVERLOADED

If you're regularly working through lunch and late into the evening, yet still not keeping up, ask for help. Go to your boss as soon as you realise you have a problem. But don't just whine pointlessly; make sure you spell out your situation. Your boss has given you the work, but you're the one who knows what's really involved.

DEVELOP A NEW SKILL EACH YEAR

Continually upgrading your skills will keep you one step ahead. They'll make you more valuable or even help you make a smooth transition to another company. The main attribute employers look for in employees is flexibility. And at the very least you'll be keeping yourself interested in your job.

HELP YOUR BOSS SUCCEED

Bosses appreciate staff who help them look good. Any little thing you can do to help your boss keep her job will help you keep yours. Loyalty is very important. You can support them by giving feedback - positive and negative - but word your criticism carefully.

HAVE PLAN B UP YOUR SLEEVE

It's important to have a second strategy in mind should your original plan of action be thwarted. Someone who offers solutions rather than problems will be viewed as enthusiastic and committed. It shows you're not avoiding responsibility when things get difficult.

AVOID BEING A CHANGE CASUALTY

Many people resist change, whether it's a new procedure for ordering stationery or a corporate merger, but these people will be the first to go when job cuts are made. Don't fight change. Being able to go with it is the key to remaining employed, never mind being a good employee.
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HR OFFICERS & SALESGUYS

3 Real Life Stories...

Eleven people were dangling below a helicopter on a rope.  There were ten HR people and one Sales guy.
Since the rope was not strong enough to hold all the eleven, they decided that one of them had to let go to save all the others.

They could not decide who should be the volunteer.  Finally the Salesguy said he would let go of the rope since Sales guys are used to do everything for the company.  They forsake their family, don’t claim all of their expenses and do a lot of overtime without getting anything in return.

When he finished his moving speech all the HR people began to clap…
Moral: Never underestimate the powers of the Sales guy.

The Second …
A group of Salesguys and a group of HR people take a train to a conference.  Each HR person holds a ticket.  But the entire group of Salesguys has bought only one ticket for a single passenger.  The HR people are just shaking their heads and are secretly pleased that the arrogant Salesguys will finally get what they deserve.

Suddenly one of the Salesguys calls out: “The conductor is coming!”.  At once, all the Salesguys jump up and squeeze into one of the toilets.  The conductor checks the tickets of the HR people.  When he notices that the toilet is occupied he knocks on the door and says: “Ticket, please!”  One of the Salesguys slides the single ticket under the doors and the conductor continues merrily on his round.

For the return trip the HR people decide to use the same trick.  The buy only one ticket for the entire group but they are baffled as they realize that the Salesguys didn’t buy any tickets at all.   After a while one of the Salesguy announces again: “The conductor is coming!”  Immediately all the HR people race to a toilet and lock themselves in.
All the Salesguys leisurely walk to the other toilet.  Before the last Salesguy enters the toilet, he knocks on the toilet occupied by the HR people and says:  “Ticket, please!”

And the moral of the story?
 
HR people like to use the methods of the Salesguys, but they don’t really understand them.

The Third …

Once upon a time three HR people were walking through the woods and suddenly they were standing in front of a huge, wild river.  But they desperately had to get to the other side.  But how, with such a raging torrent?  The first HR guy knelt down and prayed to the Lord:  “Lord, please give me the strength to cross this river! "

*pppppfffffffuuuuffffffff*

The Lord gave him long arms and strong legs.  Now he could swim across the river.  It took him about two hours and he almost drowned several times.

BUT… he was successful!

The second HR guy, who observed this, prayed to the Lord and said:  “Lord, please give me the strength AND the necessary tools to cross this river!”

*pppppfffffffuuuuffffffff*


The Lord gave him a tub and he managed to cross the river despite the fact that the tub almost capsized a couple of times.

BUT… he was successful!

The third HR man who observed all this kneeled down and prayed:  “Lord, please give me the strength, the means and the intelligence to cross this river!”

*pppppfffffffuuuuffffffff*

The Lord converted the HR man into an Salesguy.  He took a quick glance on the map, walked a few meters upstream and crossed the bridge.
Moral?
 
You have to be a Salesguy to think intelligent, Otherwise…

GOD HELP YOU ! PROUD TO BE A SALESGUY
Human Resource Management

The Tortoise and The Hare

Good old lessons in teamwork from an age-old fable

Once upon a time a tortoise and a hare had an argument about who was faster.
They decided to settle the argument with a race. They agreed on a route and started off the race.

The hare shot ahead and ran briskly for some time. Then seeing that he was far ahead of the tortoise, he thought he'd sit under a tree for some time and relax before continuing the race.
He sat under the tree and soon fell asleep.
The tortoise plodding on overtook him and soon finished the race, emerging as the undisputed champ.
The hare woke up and realized that he'd lost the race.
The moral of the story is that slow and steady wins the race.

This is the version of the story that we've all grown up with.
The story continues …
The hare was disappointed at losing the race and he did some soul-searching. He realized that he'd lost the race only because he had been overconfident, careless and lax. If he had not taken things for granted, there's no way the tortoise could have beaten him.
So he challenged the tortoise to another race. The tortoise agreed. 
This time, the hare went all out and ran without stopping from start to finish. He won by several miles.

The moral of the story?

Fast and consistent will always beat the slow and steady. If you have two people in your organization, one slow, methodical and reliable, and the other fast and still reliable at what he does, the fast and reliable chap will consistently climb the organizational ladder faster than the slow, methodical chap.

It's good to be slow and steady; but it's better to be fast and reliable. 

But the story doesn't end here …

The tortoise did some thinking this time, and realized that there's no way he can beat the hare in a race the way it was currently formatted.
He thought for a while, and then challenged the hare to another race, but on a slightly different route.
The hare agreed.
They started off. In keeping with his self-made commitment to be consistently fast, the hare took off and ran at top speed until he came to a broad river. The finishing line was a couple of kilometers on the other side of the river. 
The hare sat there wondering what to do. In the meantime the tortoise trundled along, got into the river, swam to the opposite bank, continued walking and finished the race. 

The moral of the story?

First identify your core competency and then change the playing field to suit your core competency.

In an organization, if you are a good speaker, make sure you create opportunities to give presentations that enable the senior management to notice you. 

If your strength is analysis, make sure you do some sort of research, make a report and send it upstairs. 

Working to your strengths will not only get you noticed, but will also create opportunities for growth and advancement. 

The story still hasn't ended …
The hare and the tortoise, by this time, had become pretty good friends and they did some thinking together. Both realized that the last race could have been run much better.

So they decided to do the last race again, but to run as a team this time.
They started off, and this time the hare carried the tortoise till the riverbank. 
There, the tortoise took over and swam across with the hare on his back. 
On the opposite bank, the hare again carried the tortoise and they reached the finishing line together. They both felt a greater sense of satisfaction than they'd felt earlier. 

The moral of the story?

It's good to be individually brilliant and to have strong core competencies; but unless you're able to work in a team and harness each other's core competencies, you'll always perform below par because there will always be situations at which you'll do poorly and someone else does well.

Teamwork is mainly about situational leadership, letting the person with the relevant core competency for a situation take leadership. 

There are more lessons to be learnt from this story.
 
Note that neither the hare nor the tortoise gave up after failures. The hare decided to work harder and put in more effort after his failure. The tortoise changed his strategy because he was already working as hard as he could. 

In life, when faced with failure, sometimes it is appropriate to work harder and put in more effort. Sometimes it is appropriate to change strategy and try something different. And sometimes it is appropriate to do both. 
 
The hare and the tortoise also learnt another vital lesson. When we stop competing against a rival and instead start competing against the situation, we perform far better.

When Roberto Goizueta took over as CEO of Coca-Cola in the 1980s, he was faced with intense competition from Pepsi that was eating into Coke's growth. His executives were Pepsi-focused and intent on increasing market share 0.1 per cent a time.

Roberto decided to stop competing against Pepsi and instead compete against the situation of 0.1 per cent growth. 

He asked his executives what was the average fluid intake of an American per day? The answer was 14 ounces. What was Coke's share of that? Two ounces. Roberto said Coke needed a larger share of that market. The competition wasn't Pepsi. It was the water, tea, coffee, milk and fruit juices that went into the remaining 12 ounces. The public should reach for a Coke whenever they felt like drinking something.

To this end, Coke put up vending machines at every street corner. Sales took a quantum jump and Pepsi has never quite caught up since. 

THE FOUR CANDLES

Ford: The Inspiring Story Of Henry Ford

THE FOUR CANDLES BURN SLOWLY.
THE AMBIANCE WAS SO SOFT YOU COULD HEAR THEM TALKING.
THE FIRST ONE SAID:

”I AM PEACE !

HOWEVER, NOBODY CAN KEEP ME LIT .
I BELIEVE  I WILL GO OUT."

It’s flame rapidly diminishes and goes out completely.
THE SECOND ONE SAYS:

”I AM FAITH !

MOST OF ALL, I AM  NO LONGER  INDISPENSABLE ,
SO IT  DOESN’T MAKE ANY SENSE THAT I STAY LIT ANY
LONGER ."
When it finished talking, a breeze softly blew on it putting it out
SADLY, THE THIRD CANDLE SPOKE IN ITS TURN:

”I AM LOVE !

I HAVEN’T GOT THE STRENGTH TO STAY LIT. PEOPLE PUT ME ASIDE AND DON’T UNDERSTAND MY IMPORTANCE. THEY EVEN FORGET TO LOVE THOSE WHO ARE NEAREST TO THEM ."
  And waiting no longer it goes out.
SUDDENLY...

A CHILD ENTERS THE ROOM AND SEES THREE CANDLES NOT BURNING.

”WHY ARE YOU  NOT BURNING? YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO STAY LIT TILL THE END."
SUDDENLY...

A CHILD ENTERS THE ROOM AND SEES THREE CANDLES NOT BURNING.

”WHY ARE YOU  NOT BURNING? YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO STAY LIT TILL THE END."
THEN THE FOURTH CANDLE SAID:

”DON’T BE AFRAID, WHILE    I AM STILL BURNING WE CAN RE-LIGHT THE OTHER CANDLES,

I AM  HOPE !"
WITH SHINING EYES, THE CHILD
TOOK THE CANDLE OF HOPE
AND LIT THE OTHER CANDLES.
The flame of Hope should never go out for you !!!!
…and that each of us  should help  this child in his needs to maintain
Hope, Faith, Peace and Love  !!!!

Ford: The Inspiring Story Of Henry Ford
 
 

BUILDING A LIFE

An elderly carpenter was ready to retire, and he told his boss of his plans to leave and live a more leisurely life with his wife. He would miss the paycheck, but he needed to retire. They could get by.

The contractor was sorry to see such a good worker go, and he asked the carpenter to build just one more house as a personal favor.

The carpenter said yes, but in time it was easy to see that his heart was not in his work. He resorted to shoddy workmanship and used inferior materials. It was an unfortunate way to end a dedicated career.

When the carpenter finished his work, the employer came to inspect the house. He handed the front-door key to the carpenter. “This is your house,” he said. “It is my gift to you.”

The carpenter was shocked! What a shame! If he had only known he was building his own house, he would have done it all so differently.
So it is with us. We build our lives, a day at a time, often putting less than our best into the building. Then with a shock we realize we have to live in the house we have built.

 If we could   do it over, we’d do it much differently. But we cannot go back…

You are the carpenter of your life. Each day you hammer a nail, place a board,
or erect a wall. 
Your attitudes and the choices you make today build your “house” for tomorrow…  
Build wisely!

When you leave office today

                                               When you leave office today.

Study this small story,
Hope that makes a BIG change in
YOU

Professor began his class by holding up a
glass with some water in it.
He held it up for all to see & asked the students
“How much do you think this glass weighs?”
'50gms!' .... '100gms!' .....'125gms'
..the students answered

“I really don't know unless I weigh it,” said the professor,
“but, my question is:
What would happen if I held it up like this for a few minutes?”
'Nothing' …..the students said.
'Ok what would happen if I held it up like this for an hour?' the professor asked.

'Your arm would begin to ache' said one of the student

“You're right, now what would happen if I held it for a day?”
“Your arm could go numb, you might have severe muscle stress & paralysis & have to go to hospital for sure!”
….. ventured another student & all the students laughed

“Very good.
But during all this, did the weight of the glass change?”
asked the professor.
'No‘…. Was the answer.

“Then what caused the arm ache & the muscle stress?”
The students were puzzled.
“What should I do now to come out of pain?” asked professor again.
“Put the glass down!” said one of the students
“Exactly!” said the professor.
 Life's problems are something like this.
Hold it for a few minutes in your head & they seem OK.
Think of them for a long time & they begin to ache.
Hold it even longer & they begin to paralyze you. You will not be able to do anything.

It's important to think of the challenges or problems in your life,
but EVEN MORE IMPORTANT is to ‘PUT THEM DOWN' at the end of every day before You go to sleep.
That way, you are not stressed, you wake up every day fresh &strong & can handle any issue, any challenge that comes your way!
So, When you leave office today,
Remember friend to

'PUT THE GLASS DOWN TODAY! '

The Bank Account of Life

         Imagine there is a bank that credits your account each morning with R86,400.
         It carries over no balance from day to day.
         Every “evening” deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day.
         What would you do?
         Draw out every cent,
of course!!!!
         Each of us has such a “bank” 
It’s name is TIME
         Every morning,
it credits you with 86,400 seconds
         Every night it writes off, as lost,
whatever of this you have failed to
invest to good purpose
         It carries over no balance
         It allows no overdraft
         Each day it opens a new account for you
         Each night it burns the remains of the day
         If you fail to use the day’s deposits,
the loss is yours

         There is no going back.
There is no drawing against the “tomorrow.”
         You must live in the present
on today’s deposits
         Invest it so as to get
from it the utmost in
health,happiness,
and success!
         The clock is running.
         Make the most of today

To realize the value of ONE YEAR….
                        ask a student who failed a grade
To realize the value of ONE MONTH…..
                        ask a mother who gave birth
            to a premature baby
To realize the value of ONE WEEK……
                        ask the editor of a weekly newspaper
To realize the value of ONE HOUR……
                        ask the lovers who are waiting to meet.
To realize the value of ONE MINUTE…..
                        ask a person who missed the train.
To realize the value of ONE SECOND….
                        ask a person who just avoided
            an accident.
To realize the value of ONE MILLISECOND…..
                        ask the person who won a silver medal
            in the Olympics.
         Treasure every moment that you have!
         And treasure it more because you
shared it with someone special,
special enough to spend your time.
And remember that time waits for no one.

         Yesterday is history.
         Tomorrow is mystery.
         Today is a gift.
         That’s why it’s called ….
            the Present!!

The Back Side of the Bright Side

A day that dawn bright and optimistic can unravel as quickly and completely as one that begins with a tangle of trouble.


Whether I see it coming, or not, whether the undoing is of my own doing, or not, there are days when I find myself on the backside of the bright side.

Life sends everyone for a ride on the backside.

People let you down. You disappoint yourself or someone else. Things hoped for, don't materialize. Jobs disappear. Finances escalate. Health deteriorates. Loved ones pass away.

Unless you live in an insulated bubble, a ride on the backside is inevitable.


Experience on the backside has taught me not to run to the company of misery - those faithless, open, outstretched arms of self pity & hopelessness. I am not pitiful. I am not without hope and I am faith-filled. I have returned, victorious, to the bright side after every experience on the backside.

Where I am, is never as important as, who I am, while I'm there.

I can sit in darkness and I can despair over being there.

I can moan and groan, pick up the phone and wail about my troubles to everyone who will listen. I can pound people with my problems every chance I get.

I can seek out the company of those who enjoy misery's embrace and learn nothing from the experience.

I can poke a hole in the veil that separates the backside from the bright side and create a small stream of light to serve as a reminder of the victory ahead.

I can pray, and I can work my way through trials with ever increasing patience and ever growing strength of endurance. I can pay attention to the parts of my character that show up during difficult times and acknowledge the areas of weakness that need building up.

I can stand straighter and taller each step of the way, until the day I can rip the veil from top to bottom and claim my victory.

Even when life is at its darkest, you are never on the backside of nowhere.

The bright side is always there, waiting for you to step back into it and experience your victory.


Weeping may endure for a night, But joy come in the morning

A parable

A parable is told of a farmer who owned an old mule.
Unfortunately, one day the mule fell into the old well.
The old farmer heard the mule braying,
(or whatever mules do when they fall in a well.)
And after carefully assessing the situation, the farmer sympathized with the mule, but….

   *   ..decided that neither the mule or the well was worth the trouble of saving.  Instead he called his neighbors together and told them what happened.. And enlisted them to help haul dirt to bury the old mule in the well and put him out of his misery.

 
Initially, the old mule was panic-stricken!  But as the farmer and his neighbors continued shoveling and the dirt continued to hit his back… a thought struck him.
n  It suddenly dawned on him that every time a shovel load of dirt landed on his back..
n  HE SHOULD SHAKE IT OFF AND STEP UP!
n  This he did, blow after blow..
       Shake it off and step up..
       Shake it off and step up..
       Shake it off and step up..
       He repeated time after time to encourage himself. 

n  No matter how painful the blows, or distressing the situation seemed

n  The old mule fought off panic and just kept right on       

n  SHAKING  IT OFF
n  AND STEPPING UP!

n  And you’re right.. It wasn’t long before that old mule, battered and exhausted,
n  STEPPED TRIUMPHANTLY OVER THE WALL OF THAT WELL!
What seemed at first like it would bury him, actually blessed him…
All because of the manner in which he handled his adversity.
That’s Life..

 * If we face our problems and respond to them positively..
        And refuse to give into panic


 * Bitterness

     * Or self-pity

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